Sunday, November 29, 2009

Back - AGAIN

So, I don't know why I'm starting this again. My experience with blogging is from those that I've read. It seems that some people tend to but down others while not exposing what they themselves do. In my old blog, I myself may have been guilty of that too. But no more. I have had my share of being bashed on a blog (unduly), but the person doing the negative postings of me can not realize that she herself has been guilty of not always being the "moral" person she claims to be. So WHY bash others on your blog if you are unwilling to see your own faults? That is one thing I am not going to do. If I feel that I have done something wrong, something that doesn't always paint me as being a great person, I will write about it. I know that I do not always make the right decisions or have the best thoughts and feelings. Nobody does. But come on, do not always act like you are a saint and others cannot live up to what you deem the right way to raise children or the right way to act. Some people, I have learned, put down others to make themselves feel better. But what kind of life are they leading?

Everything my husband and I have is from what we have done. We have had rough times, money issues, etc. But I can hold my head up high and say that we figured it out on our own. I never ran for help to make my life easier. There were times I wanted to, but it wouldn't have been right. I am a married woman with children. Mommy and daddy, did their job and don't need to keep "helping" me out. I am greatful that if times were REALLY hard that I could turn to them, but I am not going to lean on them to "help" with every little thing.

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